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Personality Turn-Ons These People Are Too Afraid To Admit To
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Crushes and attractions come in all shapes and sizes, but not all are easy to share with the world. On a social media thread, users revealed their deepest, sometimes slightly offbeat, attractions that they're often too shy to admit.

Secret Confessions: 12 Personality Turn-Ons These People Are Too Afraid To Admit To
Last updated: November 5, 2023
Anuradha Perera

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Crushes and attractions come in all shapes and sizes, but not all are easy to share with the world. On a social media thread, users revealed their deepest, sometimes slightly offbeat, attractions that they’re often too shy to admit. From mad scientists to big ears, from the embrace of awkward geekiness to the allure of bad boy musician types, these confessions shed light on the quirks of love that many users keep under wraps. Join us as we uncover and celebrate the delightful eccentricities of human desire.

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#1 – Mad Scientists: Sparks of Passion
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“Someone who is so stupidly smart but equally insane.”

For some, it’s the “mad scientist” type that sparks their attraction. The allure of intelligence mixed with a touch of eccentricity is like a scientific formula for love. Who can resist the charm of a mind that dances on the edge of genius and madness?


#2 – Ears to Remember
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One user confesses to an affection for girls with big ears, finding it irresistibly cute. Love knows no bounds, and apparently, it’s a lot more than just skin-deep. This “ear-resistible” attraction shows that sometimes, the most endearing features are the unique ones.


#3 – Aggressive-Aggressive: Love the Directness
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“I’ve told my wife for years that one of my favorite things about her is that she isn’t passive-aggressive, she’s aggressive-aggressive.”


In a world where passive-aggressiveness often takes center stage, some users have a soft spot for those who are “aggressive-aggressive.” Honesty and directness are their attractive traits, making them a rare and refreshing find in the dating scene.

#4 – Big Noses
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“I’m not quite sure why. Something about a prominent nose just adds a unique sexiness to a woman’s face.”


Big noses may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but for some, they’re the essence of attraction. It’s a reminder that beauty isn’t confined to conventional standards, and unique features can be incredibly charming.

#5 – Emo: The Undying Attraction
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“Emo never dies” – this is the battle cry of those who are attracted to the emo style and attitude. The love for dark aesthetics, music, and emotional depth is a timeless attraction that defies trends.


#6 – Awkward Geeky Charm
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“They are also attractive when it comes on being smart. But we do look on personality first before anything else.”


The awkward geeky guys with glasses have a special place in the hearts of many users. It’s the confidence in their passions, combined with endearing awkwardness, that makes them so attractive. After all, being authentic and passionate is always in vogue.

#7 – Gray-Haired Gentlemen
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As time marches on, some users are finding themselves attracted to men with gray hair, or at least the distinguished salt and pepper look. It’s a reminder that attraction doesn’t discriminate by age, and embracing maturity can be quite alluring.


#8 – Short but Sweet
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“I never really cared that much about height to begin with, but started dating a guy my height (5’5) and it’s absolutely amazing being eye level to the one u love.”


Height isn’t everything when it comes to attraction. Some users have a soft spot for shorter guys, defying stereotypes and embracing the charm of the vertically challenged. Love knows no bounds, including those measured in inches.

#9 – Loving the Curves
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Attractiveness doesn’t adhere to societal norms, and this user knows it well. They’ve always been attracted to “fat girls” and have thankfully overcome any embarrassment surrounding this preference. It’s a reminder that beauty comes in all shapes and sizes.


#10 – Shyness is a Virtue
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“I feel like people assume if you like shy quiet women that you just want someone subservient but the truth is I just like taking care of her and I love the way she looks at me when I predict what she wants and is so happy because I pay attention to her so I know how to love her and serve her.”


Super shy girls often fly under the radar, but they hold a unique allure for some users. Their quiet confidence and depth of character make them especially endearing. Love doesn’t always need loud declarations; sometimes, a quiet smile says it all.

#11 – Attracted to the Dark Side
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“I find real-life version of those and get my heart broken every time.”


Some users can’t resist the allure of “damaged anti-hero types” commonly seen in detective series and movies. There’s something about their complexity and brooding nature that pulls at the heartstrings. It’s a reminder that sometimes, the most fascinating characters are those with a touch of darkness.

#12 – Rocking with Bad Boys
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“Not the kinds of men I would ever go near but I can look from a distance anyway…”


The rebellious charm of bad boy musician types is another attraction that many can relate to. The swagger, the talent, and the edge they bring to the table make them an irresistible magnet for some users. Rock on with love for the bad boys of the music scene!

Source: Reddit.

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Secrets can weigh heavy on our hearts, and some are so profound that sharing them could potentially turn our lives upside down. In a social media thread, users revealed secrets they’ve been harboring, ones they fear could shatter their world if ever exposed. From workplace confessions to family mysteries, these stories offer a glimpse into the hidden burdens some carry.